What exactly does one mean about feeling jealous..???It’s a different perception for different people. ..
Basically a feeling or showing an envious resentment for someone or their achievements, possessions, or perceived advantages which normally the jealous person couldn’t achieve…
ALL ABOUT JEALOUS PEOPLE….
Jealous people would never be happy on your achievements; they always take the back door to avoid to be a part of the celebration of your success. They always try to look down upon your achievements and kind of degrade you or demotivate you for the same , for example if you put in your sweat and blood to lose your weight, they would leave no stone unturned to make you believe that it is quite common that people gain it back in few weeks. They are always on a complaining and cribbing trail by comparing themselves with you intentionally presenting their status down or that you are more beautiful than them or you have a big car or house etc.
They will be happier …kind of sadistically glad to find something bad happening in your life.
Jealous people always try to prove their point right and you in wrong position and try to bring your status down and make fun of you especially publicly.
But why do people turn jealous?
- Non Achievement:
Being in the same profession but not being able to make a significant mark as you could lead to envy and resentment with your achievements.
- Inferiority complex:
The feeling of not being able to do the same things or not having the kind of good looks you have can lead to utter feeling of jealousy in their being…as they feel they are a failure in that field.
- DELAYED SUCCESS:
High chances of jealousy cropping in between two best buddies if one of them is able to grab a job earlier than the other….
So how to avoid these type of People?
- Don’t mingle with jealous people. Physical remoteness will keep you away from the pessimistic and negative influences of jealous people. If you are in the inopportune position of having them as part of your relations and it’s extremely complicated to stay away from them entirely, in that case make an effort to edge your exposure around them.
- Never ever share your future goals and plans with them. They might make use of your information for malicious purposes to try to mock and de-motivate you to give up on your goals.
- Never ever share your troubles, grieves and weak spot, they can use it to demoralize and dishearten you.
- Never endeavor to show to them that you are blooming financially and career wise, as this would simply enhance their jealousy for you and motivate them to contend harder against you in a vicious way….
STAY CLEAR OF THESE SOCIAL LEECHES OR THEY COULD SNATCH YOUR PEACE OF MIND FROM RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE…..
STAY HAPPY…STAY JEALOUSY FREE ….